At Date High Flyers (DHF), you only meet with individuals who have been personally approved and verified by our team of matchmakers. This is a paid membership site as all our clients subscribe to one of the two membership tiers.

Online dating

Personalized Matchmaking

Expanded network (more people) Exclusive and private (selected network)
Freedom to pick and choose your date according to preference A personal matchmaker will be doing the selection and recommendation for a suitable match
Many, regular dates that you curate and set up by yourself Selective, fewer dates and handpicked and arranged by matchmaker
Unverified accounts and background information and details unchecked Verified accounts as matchmaker has verified background and information given
Likelihood of fake and unauthenticated profiles Every profile is real and authenticated
Quick and easy way to make a connection Traditional way of making a connection; tends to take a longer process to be introduced
Economical fees as search is done through computer filters and scientific algorithms Expensive investment due to time and effort that matchmaker brings
More open platform, no privacy guaranteed and likelihood of higher risks of “cat fishing” Safer, private and discreet option. Privacy and confidentiality guaranteed
Singles who are casual and uncommitted. Relationship goals are not identified Singles who are serious, committed and have marriage in mind. Relationship goals are established from the outset
No feedback mechanism to determine type for next date. Goes on a “Merry go round” or “Rat’s wheel” and can be very tiring process Feedback mechanism to ensure higher quality matches or higher likelihood of a better match. Streamlining of matches become significant to finding “the one”
Experience is impersonal; can be a lonely, anonymous experience when you click and send Experience feels a lot like a friend is helping you out and having your back
More random results and can be more stressful and a waste of time with no real matches More tangible results. More effective in the long term
Popular option among the young & millennials who want to date only More attuned to the 35 and above because they have marriage in mind

How To Get Started?



If you are looking for love, a great profile is key. Spend a few minutes to create a compelling profile when you register and select your preferences that are likely to attract the right attention.



Choose between LUXE and BLACK LABEL plans based on your sense of purpose. We recognise your desire for one-on-one attention so if you prefer, call one of our matchmakers to get immediate assistance before you decide.



Once approved, you can gain access to a large number of professionals and proceed with real face-to-face meetings! All profiles are personally verified and authenticated for privacy, safety and security.


What is DHF (Date High Flyers)?

DHF is the luxury provider of high end matchmaking services for singles in Singapore and around the Asian region. We provide unparalleled services ranging from personalized matching (luxe) to high level matchmaking service (black label) that’s fully customized for discerning individuals who prefer the ultimate matchmaking experience.

Who does DHF serve?

Our clients consist of local and international professionals who are mainly residing in Singapore and Southeast Asia. Over 80% of our clients live and work in Singapore, however many have international backgrounds.

Our male clients age range are between 35 and 70 and we have fit and athletic men who are committed to settling down. Our female clients start from late 20s and we have elegant and well-put together women right into their mid-60s.

They may be single and never married, divorced, widowed and legally separated. Our clients tend to have strong academic backgrounds with most of them having degrees from pedigree Universities and almost all of them tend to lead busy, professional lives.

Does DHF have an equal number of male and female clients?

DHF has a significant number of female clients in their 20s, 30s and 40s while there are more male clients in the 40s, 50s and 60s.

What can I expect from the face to face consultation?

For our Luxe and Black Label memberships, we offer a virtual or face to face consultation in our office.The consultation gives us a first impression of whether there could be a fit between us. We’d like to know a bit more about you and to see if you’d also fit into the demands of our existing clients.

What can I expect during the consultation with DHF’s matchmakers?

The virtual or in person consultation serves to identify your relationship goals as well as determine your current status and where your starting point is. During the consultation, you will discuss what is important to you in a partner and establish your key search criteria.

If I’m not a high-flyer, do I still get considered as a potential member?

Our clients form a very tight group and many enrol with us after being referred by friends, family members or colleagues. Almost all of our clients are professionals, some with stellar careers and others with noble ones.

We will take into consideration many factors (not just professions and earning capacities) as reasons to accept you as a member. Clients who have very open parameters are always welcomed because your preferences determine a substantial part of the results we can bring to you.

Can I make a direct request to be matched according to race, religion or personal income? Can you match according to horoscope?

It is always important to state your preferences at the outset so we will know if we could serve you. Essentially, DHF uses a specific matchmaking method that goes beyond race, religion or personal income. We have developed a proprietary method of matchmaking that does not include astrological matching.

How much does the Luxe and Black Label Membership cost?

The Luxe membership is the entry level membership and it starts from S$6000 per year whereas the Black Label Membership is a fully customized membership, managed exclusively by the Chief Matchmaker. The Black Label membership carries no shorter than a 12 month duration and the monthly retainer may range from S$1250 to S$5500 per month.

Who is Anisa Hassan and how long has DHF been in business?

As the Founder of this luxury matchmaking service, Anisa Hassan has clocked more than 10,000 hours meeting and matchmaking clients. She spent close to 20 years as a matchmaker with a renowned, American-based dating agency between 2003 and 2017. Having a background in journalism and international relations, Anisa is a published author of two guide books and is a columnist for some regional publications like The Jakarta Globe, AsiaOne, IS Magazine and Jetstar Asia. She is also a certified relationship coach and has developed a unique method of Vibrational Matching.

How long are the membership terms?

The Luxe membership guarantees a personalized introduction of a minimum of six dates while the Black Label membership is a fully customized matchmaking solution for the highly discerning individual and this carries a one year term. The Black Label membership comes with the exclusive, personalized coaching by Anisa Hassan that has always been the secret ingredient to being successfully paired.

Do you also provide a high-end international matchmaking service?

Absolutely! Anisa Hassan works with a select number of discerning gentlemen and assists them in their search for their life partner / spouse and she reaches out to her partners and affiliates from various offices worldwide to help her clients find that one, special person.

What is the advantage of using the DHF service?

Our clients inform us that DHF gives them a safe environment to meet like minded professionals who have marriage in mind. They love that we eliminate the uncertainties of meeting someone new because all our members share similar objectives. Our clients enjoy the comfort and certainty of having a real matchmaker who look out for their best interests.

Get Started

With close to 20 years experience in matchmaking, why don’t you take a moment to speak to us?